After Israel took the
Golan Heights from Syria in the 1967 war, 17,000 ethnic Druze, whose people
had been living in the area for centuries, suddenly found their lives fractured
and their families divided by an impassable border. In spite of substantial
economic and educational gains made under Israeli rule, the Druze of the
Golan still consider themselves to be Syrians living under Israeli occupation.
They do not intermingle with Israelis, refuse to hold Israeli passports,
and live in their own villages. A French/German/Israeli co-production,
The
Syrian Bride tells the story of one such family as they prepare to
attend their daughter's wedding on the Syrian border. It is primarily a
comedy yet it is also a poignant drama that takes no sides but attempts
to put the political turmoil in the region into a humanistic context.
Mona (Clara Khoury), a
young Druze bride is to be wed to Syrian TV-star Tallel (Derar Sliman)
from Damascus, a man she has never met. Since neither country recognizes
the other diplomatically, once the bride crosses the border to Syria, she
will never be allowed to return to Israel and her wedding day, usually
a day of great joy, may be one of her saddest. While the film tells us
much about the sad realities of the political fragmentation in the Middle
East, it is also a story with social and cultural ramifications. Mona's
sister Amal (Hiyam Abbas), whose expressive face frames the film's beginning
and end, is stuck in an unhappy marriage. She wants to attend Haifa University
but is thwarted by her husband Amin (Adnan Trabshi) who is afraid of losing
face in the village and of relinquishing "control".
Mona's father Hammed (Makram
Khoury), a pro-Syrian agitator known to Israeli police, is forbidden to
travel to the Syrian border to say goodbye to his daughter. He harbors
resentment and refuses to welcome his son Hattem (Eyad Sheety) and his
Russian wife home from Moscow because he broke family tradition and moved
away eight years ago. Another son, Marwan (Ashraf Barhom), a businessman,
is welcomed by the family but is rejected by an angry former girlfriend,
a French Red Cross worker (Julie-Anne Roth), who works in the village.
Mona's character is mostly symbolic and she has little to say, yet the
story of the film is written on her face and her lack of dimensionality
is more than compensated for by the depth of the supporting characters,
particularly Hattem and Amal.
As these conflicts bubble
under the surface, the situation becomes increasingly absurd as the wedding
is threatened by bureaucratic intransigence on the border checkpoints between
Israel and Syria. Mona's passport has an Israeli stamp on it and, according
to Syrian regulations, anyone carrying a passport with an Israeli stamp
is denied entry to Syria. Neither Israeli nor Syrian customs officials
seem to know what to do and the prospective bride and groom are stuck in
a no-man's land, reduced to communicating via bullhorns pressed against
locked gates. The Syrian Bride may sound like an exercise in absurdity
bordering on farce, yet for the family who may never see their child again,
it is a drama of high seriousness. Whether you consider The Syrian Bride
to be an allegory, black comedy, family drama, or political statement,
the image of a girl sitting alone in a white wedding dress stuck between
impenetrable barriers is one that remains.